When the vibe is off, it’s probably not your crystals—it might be your circle.

In this unapologetically raw episode of Spicy Bananas, we sit down with Davina—Reiki Master, spiritual coach, and host of Divine Healing by D—to talk about the things no one else will: sex spells, energy sabotage, spiritual gossip, and why that one “nice” friend might actually be draining your soul.


Episode Breakdown:

🎙️ Guest:
Davina is a published author, Reiki Master of 10+ years, and host of the Divine Healing by D podcast. She’s spent half a decade interviewing global spiritual leaders and today, she’s here to spill some serious energetic tea.


Highlights from the Interview:

  • The Truth About Toxic Friends:
    Not all demons wear horns—some bring wine and fake support. Davina reveals why toxic friends can be more dangerous than dark energy.

  • Period Sex = Spiritual Tattoo?
    Engaging in sex during your cycle might be more binding than you think. Davina unpacks how energy—and soul ties—get transferred through blood and sex.

  • Gossip as Black Magic:
    Words hold power. And according to ancient Jewish teachings, malicious gossip (even “just venting”) can attract illness, bad luck, and spiritual decay.

  • The Spiritual Setup of a Sex Spell:
    From feeding blood to binding rituals, Davina shares old-world taboos that still ripple through today’s energetic relationships.

  • Crystal Rx for Your Libido:
    Feeling disconnected or dull in your sensuality? Davina drops a shopping list of crystals (like tiger’s eye and carnelian) to place strategically for energetic alignment.

  • How Spiritual Friends Can Sabotage Your Dating Life:
    “I’ve learned to keep my dating life on the DL,” says Davina. Even well-meaning friends can block your lessons, soul contracts, and growth by projecting their fears.


Takeaways & Spicy Truth Bombs:

  • Sex is sacred—treat it that way, or suffer the energetic consequences.

  • Your crystals won’t protect you from people you refuse to cut off.

  • You can spiritually tie yourself to the wrong person through period sex—and carry their chaos long after they’re gone.

  • Gossip isn’t harmless—it’s energetic poison.

  • Reclaiming sensuality starts with self-touch, self-trust, and saying no to fake “friends.”


Recap Notes:

  • Reiki isn’t just relaxing—it can reveal trapped trauma, breakups, and soul ties.

  • Spiritual coaching is just as much about boundaries as it is about blessings.

  • You don’t need to be a “perfect” spiritual being to protect your peace—just an aware one.

  • If you’re entering a new healing phase, don’t skip the salt baths, the moon rituals, or the cut-offs.


🎧 Catch the Full Episode Here:
👉 Spicy Bananas Ep. 8 with Davina – YouTube